well, its all yours to decide what is a thing means.
you have your own word and even your own right about it.
for example, for a lot of people red roses are better than white because it means that by giving a red rose is like tell someone that you really in love with him, but for me the better one is the white one because it tells you that someone who gives it to you is love you with sincerely and politely.
some people also say, being an idealist person is not good, or about the person who always calculate everything, but for me somehow that habits would be needed for us but not in every situation.hehe
and another thing is, i would prefer a playboy who admit that he is a playboy rather than someone who act like an angel when the fact is he is a playboy. what about you?